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Why do people have extra marital affairs?

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Extramarital affair

Millions of marriages and relationships end every day. Many men and women are just never completely satisfied with marriage and love. This is why adult dating is so popular- as there are so many people in the same situation. Many people get married and then realise that they just can’t be happy with just a single partner. Sex can spice up a relationship and make it more exciting. On the other hand, lack of sex is a major reason why many people have extra marital affairs. One night stands, friend with benefits and casual sex is what many people are looking for today.

Being with the same partner all your life can be a very depressing thought for many people. This is why people indulge in extra marital affairs- when they feel that they cannot fulfil their commitments, and look to find happiness with somebody else.

However, there are many key reasons why people indulge in extra marital affairs. Here are just a few:

Children: It is often said that children strengthen the bond between two people in a marriage. However, this still doesn’t stop some people from cheating. People often continue with an unhappy marriage just for the sake of their children. In this situation, the two people are never happy as there is no love and intimacy- so they go looking for this in other places.

Hectic work schedules: Too much work and too little time for your partner is never good. This is one of the most common reasons for extra marital affairs, as it can leave one partner feeling lonely and unwanted, due to lack of attention. As a result they look on adult dating sites for someone who can give them the love and attention they crave.

Sex: Sex can keep a relationship alive. If you neglect it, your relationship is almost always doomed to fail. People often lose interest in sex after being married for a while. There are many reasons for this, and it can often feel like a chore. This can lead to massive tension and can be a major problem for your partner if they have a higher sex drive, so they are likely to go looking elsewhere to fulfil their needs.

One night stands and casual sex are appealing to many people. People may indulge in extra marital affairs if they find someone who is more sexually compatible. After being in a relationship for a while, many men do not express their sexual fantasies to their spouses, as they may think that they will not approve of them, or find them disrespectful and inappropriate.

Lack of commitment: Many people go into a marriage truly believing that they can spend the rest of their lives with just one person. However, as time goes on it soon becomes apparent that they simple can’t fulfil this commitment, so their eyes start to wander and they become involved in one night stands or an affair.

Physical attraction:  It is a sad but true fact that beauty fades with time. Many relationships and marriages are based on physical attraction- and when that is gone they are left with nothing. As people become more and more comfortable in a marriage, they often make less effort with their appearance, as they feel that it isn’t necessary. With age, many people gain weight, lose their hair and develop wrinkles. This may force their partner to look elsewhere, usually for a younger or more attractive replacement.

Adult dating is becoming more and more popular, as you can find someone who is just looking for no-strings-attached fun.

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